Here is an off-the-wall suggestion. Go to Tractor Supply or other farm implement store, and buy a small adjustable top link for a 3 point hitch for about $30+. Disassemble it. Cut the ball ends off both ends to leave straight rods on each end. Rough these up, or better still, file or cut some notches along the unthreaded length to better grip epoxy. Cut your ash pole to leave (3) pieces; butt end, tip, and a short section just slightly longer than the center sleeve on the adjustable end link, maybe 1-2 inches longer depending. Drill axial holes the same as or just a tiny bit larger than the diameter of the link end rods, and deep enough to accept the unthreaded link sections. If you don't have a better way, a drilling guide is a good idea. Get a scrap piece of flat board, say 3/4 inch or more thick, drill a tiny hole near the center perpendicular to the board, draw a circle the diameter of the pole around it, glue three or more positioning blocks flush with the outside of the circle, then drill the center hole with the drill bit you are going to use to drill the ash pole, making sure this hole is as exactly perpendicular to the guide board as possible. Once you cut the end of the ash pole exactly square, you can slip this guide over the end to position the bit in the center of the pole and help align it axially. Once drilled, epoxy the link ends into the shaft butt and tip sections. If there is any radial play at all, you can make a positioning jig for gluing the same as above, except use thinner board and drill the final hole just slightly smaller than the threads on the adjustable link, then turn the link all the way into it. It will press it's own threads into the wood. Take care not to epoxy the guide to the pole. Remove any squeezed epoxy, cover the pole end with waxed paper and coat the threads with vasoline. Store the pole sections vertically, epoxied end up, and let cure. Hollow out the center of the short piece to accept the link sleeve. You can drill this from both ends, and it doesn't have to be exact. If you can't cut deeply enough any other way, you can cut the section into three pieces and carefully glue them back together after hollowing out each. Use three sections to keep all the force on the intact center section when you turn it to assemble the pole. Position the link sleeve inside the short piece, drill holes through the pole section to match the adjustment bar holes in the link sleeve, and pin it in place with a bolt, or a piece cut from the adjustment bar that comes with the adjustable link. Make this pin a little short on both ends, and hide the holes with wooden plugs. You can epoxy this assembly together inside, but if you do, wait until final assembly to get good alignment. Once cured, to make this work, thread the pole end sections into the center link, and grab the short center section in your hand. It will rotate one direction to tighten everything, and in the other direction to take apart. You can use a strap wrench with a rubber strap to tighten more if you can't get it tight enough by hand. This whole thing might seem a little complicated, but pretty low tech as far as shop skill and equipment goes. Assembled, if everything fits, you should see nothing on the outside but fine cut lines, and I doubt that you can make a stronger final assembly without a lot of metal showing. A critical key to this whole procedure, and to many of the others posted, is to get good, square cuts on every cut made through the pole, and to get the mechanical parts of the assembly centered in their respective shaft sections and aligned axially. If nothing else, the guides may help with that. As a final thought, to protect against splintering, you might be able to strengthen the mating surfaces of the pole sections with a very thin film of epoxy, taking care not to make them uneven or unsquare. Thin metal plates could help also, if you don't mind the change in appearance. Or, you can glue wooden sections over damaged ends, and file/sand them down to match the pole surface. This could also be a way to get the cut ends of the pole sections exactly perpendicular to the axis if nothing else is working. Good Luck!