I'm installing an EV charger but my panel is only big enough to run either the dryer or the EV charger at the same time. So I have a current sensor on the dryer line so that when the dryer is running the EV charger circuit opens.
The EV charger is 240VAC, 24A, on a split phase circuit. I have a crydom SSR (rated to 50A) and heat sink but it's single pole. Is it safe for me to just break a single phase on the EV circuit when I want to disconnect the charger? (It's currently working with a standard dual pole power relay, but the panel is in my bedroom and the click on/off is really loud and keeps waking the baby).
Here is the only info I have on the EV charger circuit: