Do 3-way switches exist that don't "stick" in UP / DOWN position? Is there a name for this concept that would help me search for products?
"Momentary Toggle" looks like the interaction I want, but those don't match standard 3-way switch lighting. (looks like they only make contact temporarily, vs. toggling full contact on/off with each press)
Core issue is that I don't like having a house full of light switches where UP = ON, DOWN = OFF, then a couple 3-way switches that stick in random up/down positions reversed from normal ON/OFF. Ideally I'd like a rocker switch that rests in the neutral position, with UP or DOWN both toggling the light's state before springing back to the neutral position.
It seems this would be easy to create mechanically. It's just swapping a toggle switch for a push-button toggle between the two switch states. Why can't I find something that seems so simple and obvious?