Before making any adjustments to the unit internally, please confirm that all main disconnects and/or breakers feeding the unit are switched OFF.  Do not attempt this work unless you are sufficiently skilled to do it safely.

I expect you may have two separate issues:

1.  The thermostat must be configured to control an “electric” heater and not a “fossil” heater.

If the thermostat is in “fossil” mode (the usual default) then it will not activate the electric furnace blower in "auto" when heat is called for.  Reconfigure the settings on the thermostat to “electric” mode.

2.  There is an issue with the performance of the electric furnace itself.
 
First check the airflow when the blower is switched “ON”.  If the airflow out of the registers feels weak, look for an obstruction such as a clogged air filter or closed seasonal damper.  Once you have confirmed there are no obstructions, change the blower speed setting to increase the airflow temporarily based on the wiring diagram under Update #2 (you can move the connector back to its original position later).  First move the blower connector from pin #6 to pin #5 to increase the blower from low to medium and then eventually to pin #4 to increase from medium to high.   Each time the airflow is increased, check if the furnace will engage without the coils abnormally cycling off.  For normal operation, the discharge air should be about 20F-30F warmer than the room air.

If that does not work then next temporarily disconnect each of the three heat coils one at a time.  ***DISCONNECT ALL POWER BEFORE PROCEEDING.***   Since you have a two stage heater, begin with the lower contactor.  Disconnect W2 and fire the heater.  If you do not have W2 connected, then proceed to the next step by installing a jumper between W1 and W2 and then remove one red wire from the top contactor.  Safely insulate the disconnected wire, re-energize the power and fire the heater.   If the unit functions with one of the heat coils disconnected, there may be an issue with that coil, but you can continue to run at reduced capacity with the problem coil disconnected.  .  If either coil connected to the W1 contactor is found to be bad, then leave W1 and W2 connected together and leave W2 from the thermostat disconnected so the all remaining coils will fire with stage 1 heat.

If still no joy, then you will need to dig a little deeper.  Electric furnaces typically have two key types of safety components to prevent a fire.  One is a high limit switch that disengages the coils any time the safe high temperature limit is reached and the other is an airflow switch that requires air be flowing for the coils to be energized.   Some units have two sets of high limits, one that is a self-resetting bimetal device and the other that is a one-shot thermal fuse at higher temperature, wired in series.   Although not labeled in the schematic, these safety switches are indicated in your photo of diagram #1, connected in series to the gray common wire leaving the W2 contactor.  If all contactors cycle together when they should not despite adequate airflow, it is a likely there is an issue involving one of these safety components.  Some older furnaces do not have an airflow switch and instead rely on an interconnect between control power to the fan and heat contactors, but since yours does not appear to have this interconnect, I would expect your furnace does have an airflow switch.  In my experience high limit switches are the most likely to become intermittently bad because they suffer abuse when the filters are not changed regularly.  You would need to find the bad component by troubleshooting and replacing as required, which I will not go into in more detail here.  DO NOT…REPEAT..DO NOT leave the unit running unattended with any of the safety devices bypassed.

Photos of a typical high limit switch and thermal fuses:
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