It was installed illegally. That's why it failed.
Your plugging a kettle in there was absolutely correct and appropriate. You did nothing wrongreasonable.
Switched receptacles for lighting are legal. What's illegal is placing a dimmer on a receptacle, and what happened to you is precisely the reason it is illegal.
Now if you really, really want to dim a socket, you can use a magic, specially keyed receptacle that only accepts special "magic" lamp plugs (which you then put on your lamp). That's what they should have done.
TheYou don't need to replace with an identical dimmer. The rectangle shape is called a "Decora cover". Most dimmers are commodity items that workcompatible with standard Decora covers. If you want to switch that outlet, you can get Decorait as are many plain switches that'll drop right in. If you really, really wantYou'll need to dim that outlet, usedecide whether to put a Decora compatibleplain switch here; or put a dimmer (most are) and the above receptacle kit.
Since this is the condo's mess-up, I would ask them to pay for it.