I have old old plaster (on lath) bordering new drywall. Is it better to use mesh tape or just paper?
Mesh tape works really well. Some guys swear by paper though.
I prefer mesh because its really idiot proof and quite forgiving.
Plaster will crack though. Just a matter of time and how many tractor trailers roll by your house.
Mesh is definitively a better blending product. I like to embed mesh with the lightweight setting joint compound and then use general purpose (premixed) joint compound for topcoat and blending.
AFA plaster cracking, there are large size mesh rolls meant for skimcoating and repairing plaster. One I know of is 36" by 150' by FibaTape